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Join SAY at our Beat the Cold BBQ

2011 Beat the Cold BBQ

Over 701 homeless kids will sleep on the streets of Sonoma County tonight.

SAY helps.

Join SAY at our 2nd Annual Beat the Cold BBQ to end youth homelessness, and share a hot meal and a warm beverage with SAY and the Coffee House staff.

The price of admission is a new pair of socks for a homeless youth. Please dress warmly! This BBQ will be an outdoor event, come rain or (moon)shine.

Date: Friday, December 9, 2011
Time: 7-9pm
Location: the Coffee House Teen Shelter: 1243 Ripley St. Santa Rosa, CA
Price of admission: 1 new pair of socks for a homeless youth

RSVP: Click on the link below to RSVP. Have questions? Call Caitlin at 544-3299 x231

RSVP

Please pass this invite on to friends!

Ziplining at Sonoma Canopy Tours

Several months ago, the folks at Sonoma Canopy Tours contacted SAY to offer free zip-line tours to the youth we work with. Last week, several SAY staff and volunteers took nearly a dozen of the young adults who live at our Tamayo House on an outdoor experience unlike any other in the county.

The zip-line tour was thrilling and educational, with experienced guides leading the tour and pointing out the beautiful views of the west county along the way. The tour provided our young people with an outdoor experience they will remember for a lifetime.

Check out the photos below:

The 10th Annual Clo’s Classic

The 10th annual Clo’s Classic SRJC football game benefitted SAY this year.

Check out the game recap from ysn365.com for a great shot of Clover Stornetta’s Marcus Benedetti handing our executive director Matt Martin a BIG check!

Thanks to the SRJC athletics department and to Clover Stornetta Farms for a great night!

Clo’s Classic: Butte College vs SRJC, 10-22-11 from ysn365 on Vimeo.

Job Announcement: AmeriCorps Volunteer and Food Program Coordinator

Position Summary

Social Advocates for Youth (SAY) is a non-profit agency serving at-risk youth and their families in Sonoma County. We have an immediate opening for a Volunteer and Food Program Coordinator in Santa Rosa. Under the direct supervision of the Development Department at SAY, the Volunteer and Food Program Coordinator is responsible for developing and implementing the volunteer and the food program for SAY’s teen shelter and transitional housing programs.

This position has been made possible through a partnership with AmeriCorps, Prevent Child Abuse California, Child Welfare Systems Improvement, and Social Advocates for Youth (SAY). AmeriCorps is a community service program that is funded by the government and participating community partners, which is designed to help communities meet the specified needs in their area by recruiting and training individuals who are willing to devote one to two years serving in selected community projects.  Service programs strengthen communities, encourage responsibility, expand opportunities for education, provide service experience, and increase life skills. For more information on AmeriCorps, please visit www.americorps.gov

Hours and Compensation:

  • This is a full time position requiring a completion of 1700 service hours and an 11 month service commitment ending on September 30, 2012. Compensation includes a living allowance of $ 16,750, health insurance and child care (if eligible) and an educational award of $ 4,725 redeemable after completion of service. The education award can be used pay for college, graduate school, or to pay back qualified student loans.
  • Members with qualifying student loans are eligible for student loan deferment during their term of service.

Position Responsibilities:

Service Position Summary: The SAY AmeriCorps Volunteer and Food Program Coordinator shall cultivate community involvement and support in the vision, mission, and programs with an emphasis in the area of preventing child abuse & youth homelessness. The coordinator will manage and implement SAY’s volunteer program, as well as develop a food program for our teen shelter which serves an average 125 meals a month to homeless youth.

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SAY Board Member featured in the Press Democrat

SAY Board Member Allyson Ahlstrom was featured in the Press Democrat recently, in an article about her own non-profit organization, Threads for Teens.

Allyson Ahlstrom, a slight, curly-haired incoming sophomore with a penchant for designer labels, thinks big.

The 15-year-old Ursuline student stood Wednesday at the grand opening of Threads for Teens, a boutique filled with new, donated designer clothes for teen girls who don’t have the allowances or family support to go back-to-school shopping.

“It’s a self-esteem booster,” Allyson said, explaining why it’s important for young people to dress well. “Bullying can happen if someone is dressed differently, so I wanted to stop it in my own small way.”

Read the article.

Join us at the 10th Annual Clo’s Classic Football Game

The 10th Annual Clo’s Classic supports Social Advocates for Youth this year.

The SRJC Bear Cubs will play the Butte College Road Runners on Saturday October 22 at 7:00pm at the Santa Rosa Junior College.

Tickets:

General Admission $10
Students with ID $6
Seniors & Youth 12 and under $4

For tickets call Caitlin: 707-544-3299 x231

SAY’s Annual Report 2010-2011

Dear friend of SAY,

You are important to me. You are important to me because with your support, we were able to tell 5,856 youth this year that they are important to us. To kids who have so often heard “no,” together we said, “YES!” Together, we are making a difference in the lives of young people throughout Sonoma County.

In the past fiscal year, SAY has accomplished so much! We sheltered over 100 youth at our teen shelter and at our home for young adults exiting the foster system. We served 1,500 meals to hungry and homeless teens at our drop in center. We stabilized 250 families in our counseling clinic. We offered counseling to students in 9 schools in Sonoma, Cloverdale and Healdsburg. We placed 120 youth in the Sonoma County Youth Ecology Corps.

We did all this with your help, and that is why I want to present to you this annual report. Inside you’ll get to read more about our programs. You’ll see that SAY has fiscal integrity. We keep overhead costs down so that only 10% of the dollars we take in go towards management. And we’ll share with you a bit more in detail about one of our oldest programs – our counseling services.

SAY has been around for 40 years, and we want to thank you, our friends and supporters, for your dedication to our kids.

Matt Martin,
Executive Director

Download our 2010-2011 Annual Report

“I learned that I’m not alone.”

"I learned that I'm not alone."

Carmen’s success story starts with strife. Before working with SAY at Cloverdale High School, Carmen says that she would constantly put herself down and wouldn’t stick up for herself. If someone told her she couldn’t do something, she believed them, and took that negativity to heart. Now, she’s using tools she learned in SAY’s Project SUCCESS to make choices she’s proud of. Working with Susan in the Project SUCCESS program has made her more confident.

During the school year, she and about 10 of her classmates met regularly with SAY therapist Susan Dunn to talk about the challenges they were facing in their lives, and to share their experiences with each other. Through Project SUCCESS, Carmen learned how to deal with stress, family conflict, school expectations and peer pressure.

“The groups help me understand that I can have lows and highs in my life at the same time. I can deal with the mix of emotions going on in my life. I know how to relax now because it all comes down to making good choices.

Talking with the other girls in her group was a revelation for Carmen. By sharing her thoughts with others, she discovered that she had so much in common with other teens. “Almost everyone has gone through something similar to what you are going through. I learned that I’m not alone.”

Project SUCCESS teaches youth that even when they feel helpless, they can make choices to change their situation. It teaches teens that they have the power to change their life – “I feel free,” says Carmen.

Project SUCCESS serves teen boys and girls in multiple groups throughout the year at both Cloverdale and Healdsburg High Schools. Without Project SUCCESS, Cloverdale High School would have no mental health counseling available to the 470 teens who attend CHS.

Through an innovative partnership between Cloverdale Unified School District and SAY, we are able to provide desperately needed support to our teens. Since the launch of Project SUCCESS in Cloverdale just two years ago, our staff have served over half of the kids at Cloverdale High.

Even better, we have seen outstanding results from the Project SUCCESS program:

  • 33% of High School participants reported no longer using alcohol
  • 45% of High School participants reported no longer using marijuana
  • 23% of High School participants reported no longer using tobacco

As Carmen experienced herself, Project SUCCESS participants learn that they are not alone, they learn to make better choices, and gain the self-confidence to change their own lives.

Through school-based counseling programs like Project SUCCESS, SAY is helping Sonoma County’s teens grow more self-confident, healthier and happier.

Help the kids who need it most

I make healthy choices now

"I make healthy choices now."

Since 1994, SAY has been providing counseling services in Sonoma Valley. Marina Stiefvater runs Girls Circle, a group diversion program that offers teens who have come into contact with law enforcement an opportunity to “make right” on the behaviors that got them into trouble. The girls in Marina’s group have looked at their behaviors and learned tools to make better choices in the future.

When asked about the value of Girls Circle, the participants talk about how it has helped them become less judgmental and learn respect. “We have a lot of things in common, which we never would have thought before the group,” says one participant. They all value the relationships they have built in the group, saying that “It’s good to get advice from the group. We all have the same story, but we all have different backgrounds.

In going through the Girls Circle curriculum, the girls have begun to notice changes in their own behavior, and their families have seen it too. One girl shares, “My mom was so scared for me, even though I wasn’t for myself. She didn’t hate me, she was scared and worried. When I got arrested for being drunk, I had to go to Juvenile Hall. My mom lost hope – and I never had any. She’s seen a difference in me since I’ve been working with SAY, and since I got clean and sober.”

Another girl shares that, “Before, I didn’t care who I was hanging out with. Now I’ve learned that the people who were letting me do dangerous things aren’t my friends and aren’t trustworthy.”

Peer support is invaluable in Girls Circle – the girls support and challenge one another, helping them make smarter choices: “I used to want to be a famous singer, but that’s not very realistic. So I’m going to finish my GED and take business classes at the Junior College. I want to stay out of trouble.”

Help the kids who need it most

It is no easy task to change a life

It is no easy task to change a life. Over the past year, the 11 interns in SAY’s Medi-Cal Counseling Clinic helped equip over 250 kids and families with tools and resources to improve their lives. These remarkable counselors have volunteered over 15,000 hours to the youth and families we serve; an equivalent of 8 full time employees!

"I help kids learn to trust again."

I help kids learn to trust again. -Britni Pimental

Britni is a therapy intern who comes to SAY from the University of San Francisco.

Britni saw the power of counseling with a recent client, a 12 year old girl we’ll call Samantha. Samantha came to SAY feeling that no one loved her and that no one ever would.

Many of the kids we see at SAY have a troubled home life with parents struggling with violent outbursts or addictions to drugs and alcohol. Entering her teen years, Samantha was cutting herself and suffering from depression. She also hated therapy, having had ineffective experiences with it before coming to SAY.

Britni broke through the wall and within five months Samantha had stopped cutting. Britni smiles when thinking of Samantha, saying, “She feels that there is always one person in the world who cares about her. She’s changed her course. She’s going to leave here feeling she is lovable.

"My clients are dedicated to their recovery."

My clients are dedicated to their recovery. -Ashley Praplan

Ashley, working toward her Masters in Counseling Psychology at USF, came to SAY because she wanted to work with both children and families. Right now her youngest client is 8 and her oldest is 23. “I love SAY. I like that I give kids hope when they are going through a tough time.

For youth who are facing challenges like domestic violence, sexual or physical abuse at home, our interns provide a safe harbor. “Abuse is a major issue. We treat the clients and meet with parents. We work with kids to create safety plans and we let them know about the Coffee House Teen Shelter, so that they know that there is a safe place they can go to.

Every child gets a list of phone numbers for them to call if they are in trouble. We show them that they have resources when they feel totally helpless.

Ashley admits that change takes time, “There might not be a huge change every session, but something is happening.” Change also requires an immense dedication. Many of the clients we serve do not have access to their own transportation, and instead take up to 2 to 3 hours just getting to their appointments on the bus.

“One of my clients is 16 and has an eight year-old brother. They take the bus to their counseling appointment after school, rain or shine. It turns into a six-hour excursion for them by the time they get home, but they are so dedicated and have made immense progress.”

"We help create measurable results."

We help create measurable results. -Will Gayowski

Will has served SAY’s youth for nearly one year. He knows that counseling is not a touchy-feely sort of service, but a process that generates real results in the lives of those we work with. “We get specific, measurable outcomes,” Will says.

Clients know that they want to feel less anxious or depressed, and our interns work to measure that so they know when they are succeeding. “We use a scale to measure the client’s feelings and how they interact with the world. From there we work on ways to improve that number.”

We’ve seen outstanding results over the past year:

  • 90% of children demonstrated improved behavior
  • 75% of adults showed an increase in strengths and abilities to manage problems

Help the kids who need it most